CollegeDudes.com: Jerry Ford Fucks Cristian Ray

Dorse says:

Well I did hear him interviewed, Dr. Ruth.

He seemed to deliberately avoid saying whether he was straight or bi. But given the experiences he related, the odds would be straighthood.

“A ‘real’ straight guy wouldn’t fuck another guy for any amount of money. He’d puke at the very thought.” Now would that be 100% of all straight men? And this is data from which surveys/psychological studies? So the presumption is that gay sex is so intrinsically repulsive that a straight guy would automatically become physically ill at the thought, let alone the reality? Perhaps that’s the fantasy you need to believe in …

I prefer to think that Jerry is both an performer and a businessman, and he’ll give whatever performance is required in order to make the bucks. Quite simple really. It’s called *acting*.

Dorse says:

Dear Dr. Ruth

I’m delusional??

If I put the moves on some straight guy, I’m automatically going to have my “teeth knocked in”?! What decade are you from, Doc?? Well, maybe that’s your sad world.

We’re almost in 2011. My experience is that most people are accepting of people and things gay. There has been a sea change in just the last ten years.

So you should stop being so afraid, and so self-loathing. Don’t live in fear anymore.

And my apologies if you live in a very rural, intolerant, backwards area. From your negative comments, it seems as if you do.

Dorse says:

Dear Dr. Ruth/Cecil B. DeMille,

Yes, I fear to further communicate with you as your intellectual firepower is clearly so overwhelming (as well as evidencing a positive, optimistic personality).

I think we will have to agree to disagree about where Jerry fits on the orientation scale.

But let’s turn our attention to the most pressing concern: your apparent lack of proper psychosexual development and internalized homophobia.

It is your adamant claim that a straight guy could never fuck a gay guy, not even for pay–it is just too appalling a concept, and the straight guy would become physically ill. Well, perhaps in your part of the country …

And you go onto assert that if one should come on to a straight guy then one’s teeth would be knocked out (and you wished this situation on me).

First of all, what rock have you been living under, and which decade are you in, Austin Powers?? There’s a very big, exciting, gay friendly world out there. Haven’t you noticed?? Apparently not. And more’s the pity.

It seems your closeted existence and self loathing have warped both your perspective and your judgment. I would advise some type of therapy (there are free clinics).

You need to get out of your squalid and intolerant town and go to a big city. Or at least VISIT one. Go to NYC, Chicago, LA, Baltimore, Seattle, etc. You can reach all these places by bus. You’ll be shocked at how much acceptance and status gay people have gained in the last 20 years. Hey, we can even marry in a number of states. Have you heard??

It’s time for you to come out–a bit, and step by step. It’s a process. So be patient with yourself. But don’t curse yourself to continue to live in your obvious misery. Fear and shame can be overcome! Be free!!