FalconStudios: Twin Heat (Tony Douglas & Jay Kohl)

Nick Minaj says:

Wow, I didn’t know these comments were said. Here’s my 2 cents…You’re attracted to who you’re attracted to. I get that. We all have our preferences. HOWEVER…what gets on my last nerve is this need felt by many non-black men (not all) and some non-black women to disclose their non-attraction to blacks, as if they’re some prize to blacks, when the reality is most blacks could give a shit less about these people not being attracted to them.That being said, I know this works both ways. I know it’s very common for many black women to be vocal about only being attracted to black men and have their noses turned up at interracial relationships, which I find equally annoying.

wingfield, having relationships with someone of a different race or having friends who are of color (black, Asian, Latino or otherwise) does NOT make you exempt from being racist, a bigot, or prejudice, regardless if joking or not. The “I can’t be racist, I have black friends” is pretty cliche at this point. You can be in a relationship or friends with a person of another race and still be one of the above (or all three). Completely hating a person(s) as a whole, based on their race is not required for racism. For example, you can be in a relationship or friends with a person from another race and still believe that your race is superior to theirs= racism, believe in negative or racial stereotypes of that person’s race= bigotry, or form negative opinions about the people that belong to that person’s race, based on stereotypes etc.=prejudice. As a person who is multiracial, has experienced many interracial relationships, and has had friends of all races, trust me, this isn’t uncommon.