ChaosMen: Brady Hansen & Bryan (Edge)

Dustin says:

Eh. If you try it you might like it.

I personally think too much leather can lean towards theatrics, but the right amount can be fun in bed. Most look at them as fashion pieces, but a leather harness is a basic tool used to physically direct a guy while fucking. I see a hot guy in a harness, and I get turned on because he looks good in it, but I’m also thinking of things to be done with it.

Grab the ring and you can pull a guy into you as top or bottom, and the extra leverage makes it easier to move a 200lb mound of muscle (gently or roughly) around a bed. One of the rings is often a guy’s cockring. And once the straps are unfastened from that, a properly designed harness can be turned into leg sling.

In one sense I see harnesses as sex toys and people wear them about the chest for convenience. I get it. I even understand the usefulness of armbands to signal preference. What I don’t get about leather are gauntlets and kilts (renaissance fair), chaps and vests (western), and leather bandit masks (are you here to save the city?).

I understand leather gear when used as paraphernalia, but I’m with you on leather paraphilia.