Why not create our own sex parties that double as opportunities for us to create a sense of brotherhood with ourselves and our closest friends, or even new friends? In so doing, we bring sex out of the shadows and hold it in community, thereby enhancing our experiences of humanity, pleasure, and connection. We can even create our own “themes” and intentions. Use a consciously created sex party as a way to uphold each other’s hopes, wishes, and witness ourselves. We bring a sense of ceremony and ritual to our everyday lives!