What is lost and what is gained in our digital world of sex-on-demand? Indeed, apps provide for us avenues through which we are able to connect like never before in history, even across the globe! At the same time, we have conditioned ourselves socio-biologically to reduce sex to an act of digital interfacing as our first contact with another man. This is quite recent in human evolution. Men might well benefit by recovering, studying, and perfecting the art and ritual of seduction. In seduction, we bring sex back into relationship with our objects. Our objects again become men instead of images.